Today was the first time I have ever joined a march…I was supporting Rotary Central supporting the annual Silent Witness March for women who have died as the result of domestic abuse…and those who live in fear of it. It is a big problem on the island, and, I am led to undersatnd, in the Caribbean. We marched in silence to represent the number of times tht people remain silent and do not report such crimes…it was VERY powerful. Rotary Central are long time supporters of the Crisis Center for batttered women. Our Rotary banner read “There is no excuse for domestic abuse” …not now, not ever. Violence breeds violence.  At the end of the march there were speeches and it was not surprising to hear the 10 things that had the most negative influence on children…verbal abuse; physical abuse; sexual abuse; having a battered mother; drug and alcohol abuse…and last, but not least, separation and divorce. Many parents do not realise the effect that their actions and way of life have on their children…there was a plea – that I would echo – that parents think about what they do and say in front of their children – especially if the relationship is over…there are ways of addressing adult problems that do not - and should not – be played out in front of innocent children. As an educator and someone who works, on a daily basis, with the children who are on the receiving end of selfish parents and what they say and do…I can only add to the plea…please stop, think and choose the right behaviour! The message to parents is no different to the message to children - you and only you choose your behaviour…make the right choice for everyone who is under your influence. 

I’m glad my life is full of firsts!!